Tips for the Singles out THERE!

February 4, 2008
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Single On Valentine’s Day


15 Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day as A Single

 

It’s Valentine’s Day, and you’re currently without a significant other. This small, but crucial, fact can mean the difference between enjoying this holiday, or ranking it as one of the year’s low points (and hey, it’s only February…). It’s not enough that red, white, and pink roses are popping up everywhere and there are ONLY mushy cards in the card store, and all the commercials focus on just how incredibly diamond studded Valentine’s Day could be - for you - IF you were in a romantic relationship. What’s billed as the “most romantic night” of the year for couples can leave singles feeling a bit… odd and left out, to say the least.

 

What’s a single person to do?

 

1) First, recognize that you’re definitely not the only one. The U.S. Census Bureau estimates that more than 80 million people will spend this holiday as a single.

 

2) Decide what your vision is for Valentine’s Day. Is it a day you want to celebrate? Or would you prefer to treat it like just another day? If you choose the latter, then go through your normal routine for February 14, knowing that February 15 will arrive and life will be back to normal (at least until next year…).

 

3) If you choose to celebrate Valentine’s Day consider making it a date night with yourself. Make or order your favorite meal, chill something wonderful to drink.  Rent a favorite movie, or buy a new book - whatever makes you feel special and cherished. Make this night sacred time for you to think your thoughts and dream your dreams.

 

4) If you’ve been invited to a Valentine’s Day party definitely considering going. There’s a pretty good chance that you’ll meet some other singles to spend time with. This is especially important if you belong to a church or social group which is hosting an event - this could be a high level attraction venue for you, as it will draw others with similar backgrounds or interests. Make sure you look and feel your best.

 

5) If you have several single friends, consider throwing your own Valentine’s Day party. Have every invitee bring a guest - you’re likely to meet new people and have fun doing so!

 

6) If throwing a party feels like too much work, consider getting a group together to go out for dinner and/or dancing. Try to go to a “fun” restaurant such as Planet Hollywood or Hard Rock Café - someplace that is too loud for intimate dinners.

 

7) Use this day to try (or buy) something new. Pick up a hobby or a craft, cook a new kind of cuisine, work on a home decorating or improvement project. Time will pass quickly while you’re beautifying your surroundings.

 

8) Exercise today! This will clear your skin, tone your body, and keep the endorphins flowing. You’ll also feel more relaxed and will sleep better.

 

9) If you like children, consider offering to watch your friends’ kids while they go out to celebrate. You may have a great time baking cookies and building furniture forts and will earn your friends’ gratitude in the process.

 

10) Spend Valentine’s Day giving and sharing your talents with other people.  Give of yourself on this day- maybe by volunteering or helping out - you’ll find yourself tapping in to great joy.

 

11) Use the night to catch up on your overdue correspondence such as emails, letters, thank you cards. It’s another way of reaching out and staying in touch. Plus it will be a relief to clear those off your “to-do” list.

 

12) Consider spending the evening listening to live music, or hanging out at a local coffee house or bookstore café. You can do your own thing but still be with other people.

 

13)  Draw names and trade Valentines with your friends. They can be fun or silly but they are a great way to solidify your friendships.  

 

14)  Use the night to catch up on your sleep. Get ready for bed a bit earlier and wind down sooner.   Americans are generally sleep deprived so catch up when you can!

 

15) Finally, remind yourself that by not spending Valentine’s Day with just anyone, you’re taking great care of YOU and preparing for a wonderful, life-long relationship!

 


Happy Valentine’s Day!

Heart’s Day!!

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Top 10 Romantic Valentine’s Day Gifts

Valentine’s Day is the one day a year where you get to show your loved one exactly how much you love him/her. Show your love with a special gift; one that comes from the heart and will last a lifetime.

Here are 10 of the best both inexpensive and expensive gift ideas. But remember, Valentine’s Day is not about money it is about sharing your love with one another.

1. A handmade Valentine’s Day card - a handmade card says much more than a store bought one and will let your partner know exactly how much they mean to you.

2. Fresh flowers - the key to this is how they are delivered. You could have them delivered to his/her place of work, don her apartment with them, or a single red rose with a ring attached to it. What can be more romantic?

3. Personalized Chocolates - Personalized chocolates are a way of putting your expressions of love into a unique delivery.

4. Plane tickets to Paris - Ah the city of love. Which girl would not like this one?

5. A romantic candlelit dinner - for two. Cook his/her favorite meal, light some candles, stand the wine in ice and light background music will set the scene perfectly.

6. Jewelry - a heart locket for her with a photo of the 2 of you in side, or a piece of jewelry with a message on it. Maybe an engagement ring (hint, hint).

7. Love songs - put together a compilation of both your favorite love songs.

8. Say it with words - write him/her a poem about how much he/she means to you. If you can’t write poetry, then give a book of poetry instead.

9. Lingerie - this one is for both of you to enjoy.

10. Picture perfect - have a favorite photo of the 2 of you blown up and mounted onto a nice frame.

Review: Wrong Turn 2

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this sequel is more hair-raising than the first. the characters were murdered more cold-bloodedly by the "deformed people", it was more brutal and more barbaric. the killers ate human body for their food and blood as their water. they’re happy when they are able to kill people and unwittingly butcher them. but at the end, justice was served. they were killed twice more brutal than how they killed their helpless victims.

PhotoShop Brushes..

our ITElective subject in school required us to be adept in different graphic and designing softwares particularly Adobe Photoshop and Macromedia Flash. it was fun learning new things, new designs, new arts. there is so much to learn and yet, so little time. just when i thought i know everything about photoshop, i came to know a new designing strategy, the BRUSHES. i saw my classmates including brushes in their works and it really produced nice outcomes. it gave the design more character. it is simple yet elegant. now, im trying to learn more about it. to those who are ineterested, you can download different brush designs in http://www.brusheezy.com/. you can load it in the presets section of your adobe folder. here are some brush examples that i took from brusheezy.com:

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to my adem: bleehh.. i’ve something to show off to you when i get home.. finally, i know something that you don’t, and it’s brushes! hehe.. don’t worry, i’ll yeach you how and we’ll explore new uses of it together.. miss u na..

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